A Little Q&A
Since I was down for the count this past 4th of July weekend, I sat down today to try and think about points I haven’t covered here that might seem interesting or that people may have a question about. I turned to my Twitter followers to help me out with any questions they might have. I know a lot of people have trended to use the formspring site, but I know a lot of people who find it annoying and hard to read plus not everyone is on Twitter!
Q: I don’t think you’ve covered anal? Do it? Do most girls? What’s the going rate?
I have had a few clients ask me this request, usually while snickering on the phone trying to use code words like “Greek”, so it’s hard to sometimes take them seriously. I have never actually gone through a session where a client paid for it, nor have I witnessed a girl performing anal with a client in the same room. In fact, if anal does occur amongst other girls I work with I never hear about it actually happening. I know most girls would charge quite a large fee for it since its dangerous, takes time to “warm up”, oh… and it’s dangerous! I think it would take a lot of trust between the girl and the client for this to happen since the girl would have less control and would want to make sure the client respects them and their comfort level. It’s hard for all of these things to come into place, plus be taken care of for the time consuming service. Like I’ve said before, I don’t really have regulars, so the people that I do see are meeting me for the first time. It’s hard to get a feel for someone on a first visit. I know that girls elsewhere who see clients locally and who have more regulars seem to offer this service more than here in the tourist-driven town of Las Vegas.
Q: Is your job hard or dangerous sometimes?
I think I’ve mentioned briefly before that bad calls (or even physically violent calls) are quite rare. With experience it becomes easier to read people to see if a call is going down a bad path and to avoid it by adjusting my attitude or making sure the other girl/girls on the call aren’t causing problems. It seems with the downturn of the economy most phone girls have adjusted their attitudes, as well, and have become more understanding of issues on calls where it seems almost impossible to get the agency fee. They tend to speak more truthfully on the phone to the clients now (their vagueness had gotten pretty bad, at one point) and are even more lenient on knocking money off the fee to ensure that we will end up making something. I have to say that is one positive thing that has come out of the sluggish economy: being able to negotiate fees and be a little more cautious before checking in on a call. This has also made bad calls drop.
Have any more questions? Feel free to ask! I definitely want to go more into how I got into the business but have come to realize that is going to take a few entries to do and some real personal reflection on what was going through my mind at the time. Either way, leave questions here or never be afraid to shoot me one here
Tags: questions, Sex Industry
Well, I guess I would do a follow up to the Anal question just to get some more specifics.
Do you enjoy Anal? If you had a regular, would Anal be an option? What steps would you take to have the client ensure that the risk factors a lowered?
Yeah, I guess that’s it for me….
July 8th, 2010 at 9:25 amI like this format you started up. Certainly opens doors to communication. Who else to better ask these questions than you. I love your honesty and directness when you answer questions. This should also help combat writer’s block. Thank you.
July 9th, 2010 at 11:20 amI’m slowly working my way through your site, so forgive what is probably a question you’ve already addressed… how does a guy approach an escort and not worry that it’s a police sting operation? While I’ve never hired one, I have to admit that I’ve thought about it in the past. The one thing that has kept me from doing it, though, is that I would be TERRIFIED of being busted.
Is there a way to advance the conversation without putting yourself in danger of, well… breaking the law? I’ve been in hotels throughout the world where I sifted through the ads and thought “Yes… I’m going to do this”, but that fear of going to jail always stopped me. So what’s the proper way to do it?
Excellent site…
August 15th, 2010 at 11:57 am