Well when I met the right one he was handsome, a gentleman and not a strerotypical thug or flashy comic book charactor. I got to know him and choose him and I have been with him for 6 years. I have one child by him. He has never hit me. He doesn’t call me a bitch or a ho, as a matter of fact he rarely curses at all and if he does it is around other men not women nor children.

Like anyone else we have had some disagreements and a few verbal fights. But otherwise we have a fantastic relationship. I know how to work the lounges, the net, I give out business cards to potential clients, I make great money. I worked 6 days a week in the beginning now I work 5 days a week because I am a mom. When I go to college I will work 4 and a half days a week. My man is a genius in the business and taught me things I would have never learned in the indy circle. I use protection for everthing including oral, I don’t kiss clients and still make great money.

I have a car in my name, a condo in my name and my man’s name. I have a bank account and excellent credit. He calls the shots when it comes to money. But if we did break up I would be fine I have the knowledge, my wardrobe, condo and car and would still make great money but I have no plans of breaking up with him. I do have a wife-in-law and she is bi like me and we do have great sex with each other as well as our man. I am sexually satisfied to the fullest. He inspired me to quit sniffing cocaine, quit smoking cigarettes and cut down my drinking to an occasional social drink and smoking weed once a week at the most. He inspired me to get my GED diploma and I am going to college next January.

They are a lot of bad guys who are not pimps but imposters so I can understand why a lot of providers are scared but if you find the right one you will be treated like a queen. But I think a lot of girls in the business pick square guys who are losers. When they do get a boyfriend it is some struggling artist, musician, actor or even worse some guy who is a drunk, junkie or crackhead or some drug dealer thug who beats them up.

I am truly blessed to have a man who loves me and I love him. I have a man I can retire with who will accept me for me.

Has your pimp ever hurt you physically?
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If your pimp suddenly vanished, would you need to find a replacement?
How much of the money you earn does your pimp take?
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