A Little Look Into The Vegas Girl’s Life
I have been kind of slacking on updating my blog more than once a week but the past few days I have actually been busy with working around town and making some decent cash. Lets keep it going! April is kind of the peak of the convention season and then kind of tapers off into a steady stream of tourists coming into town for their summer vacations.
Two entries ago dexplorer left a comment on my Vegas Grand Prix entry asking a slew of questions that I am sure other people are curious about and would take a whole entry just to answer! So here it goes.. I’ll answer the questions I feel comfortable sharing with the readers of this blog
“What I haven’t seen you talk at all about are any non working relationships, whether friends or love interests. This often seems to be a very interesting, often difficult, side of the life. Do you or have you had boyfriends while you were hooking? Did any of them know? How did that work, if so? Did any want stories, or did they simply not want to know details.”
After reading a number of blogs that are written by female or male prostitutes, I have also noticed a number of them talking about their personal love life, interest in non-work relationships, and their friends in their “real” life. I personally don’t feel a need nor do I care to talk about my personal relationships in my normal life. I like keeping the two separated and don’t feel a need to share them with the readers of this blog. Nothing wrong with other people doing so (I also enjoy reading their stories) but I like to keep this blog to my work life and the many things I encounter while being a prostitute in Las Vegas.
“Have you ever been married?”
Nope… I only can think of two girls (maybe) I know that are married and are a working girl.
“Do you have straight girl friends or guy just friends who know? If not is it hard to keep it from them? What’s your cover story? You don’t seem to have any sort of straight job as well, full or part time. Is that right?”
I have a couple of just friends who know what I do. It is hard to keep it from some friends because they randomly have conversations about other girls that are mutual friends who have are dancers and ended up doing things “on the side.” I sometimes have to sit through conversations where these people constantly dog these girls and reducing them to non-human trash. I hate having to sit through it and try to convince them that it doesn’t matter what those girls do, they have never tried to influence or force their lifestyle on anyone else. So yes, it is difficult to keep things from them because I fear one day if something did leak out then I might be ousted as a friend just because of what I do. At the same time I wonder why I even care about what they think. If those “friends” don’t like me just because of my occupation then why should I even be friends with them?
My cover story is that I strictly do bachelor parties and private dancing instead of working in a strip club like I used to. I don’t have a straight job right now and couldn’t imagine fitting that into my schedule. I have other entrepreneurial plans in the works so I am a pretty busy girl.
“Do you see marriage and or kids in your future? Do you think you’d tell your finance or boyfriend you hoped to marry about this past side of you? If not there’d be an awful large part of you time, and time periods in your life, to hide and make up stuff about, wouldn’t there. (I’m the kind of guy who I think could handle it certainly having been in the past — well I have handled that, though not with a wife — and possibly even currently, depending on lots of things about the way she was with me and so on.)”
I definitely want kids in the future but in no rush for it… marriage is not a pressing issue for me like it is for some girls. I definitely can see the day of quitting this and having kids and “settling” down as they say and focusing on business ventures. I know a lot of girls have no plan whatsoever and think they can do this for the rest of their days. I know that isn’t true and have been planning accordingly for my future. I really hate seeing these younger girls who have pimps and we all know that guy has no interest in helping that girl out in the future whenever she wants to quit this job. She will always end up on her ass with nothing having to start over again by herself. Hate seeing it but I guess people have to learn a lesson somehow.
“Anyway all that sort of thing is fascinating to me.”
As I am sure it is to lots of other people, but for the most part I like to keep my journal to the job aspect of it and leave the personal life out. Hope I shed a little light on my life and some of the struggles of carrying on a normal life too.
So I have to jet… I will write another entry later or tomorrow about some recent action that has been happening in the news in Vegas. Some crazy stuff.
I very much appreciate, I really do, your extended response to my questions, lasvegascourtesan. You’re a very interesting and intelligent woman. I’m also rather puzzled by it.
I know we are all infinitely various, oh yes I do, but there are also patterns. Intelligent, reflective courtesans/call girls who like to blog tend to fall into two broad categories: those who are primarily promoting and advertising (and who I don’t read, except to have seen the phenomenon), and those who are “confessing” their life in one of the relatively few places they can, anonymously, but with a community of people who are sympathetic, women who are or have followed a similar path, men who are attracted to it but also interested in the true feelings, and so on. Usually straight relationships are very important in these confessional blogs – or rather the points of conflict, friction and incompatibility are. In fact it’s nearly universal, in the “I will accept no effort to “date” me from here” type of blog.
Your reasons for blogging now look pretty unique to me.
Can I ask what you get out of it, if you aren’t trying to reconcile sex without emotion, or usually, but sometimes it is, and is threatening to almost all outsiders, with real and stable connection with someone?
Also let me say, I don’t read these kinds of blogs primarily for sexual titillation. Yes I do read them because I’m interested in very sexual women, always have been, didn’t marry one (but certainly didn’t think before that she was ice), big mistake, moving on. I’m reading them to try to figure some things out, which I think is often best done at the margins, where people are pushing things. I’m reading other kinds of sex blogs as well for similar reasons. It’s not for stroke material, though I’ll be honest enough to admit it’s occasionally become that. I’ve forever found good and free written fantasy porn on the net with no difficulty. This quest is different. This is a quest for what’s true, at some margins.
So anyway, I guess this is a renewed request for you to reveal more about your conflicts and relationship issues, all vaguely enough to remain anonymous, of course.
If you don’t, I probably won’t visit much more. I know you’ll live. Just saying.
April 25th, 2007 at 7:30 pmMy blog has become a chronicle about what I am interested in that is going on around Vegas and the struggles to make it in this town as an escort/call girl. My blog isn’t a confession of my private life and have my own private journal for those entries… sorry that you want me to include more of that side of my life, but I would mostly like to stick to what people might find interesting about a prostitute working in Las Vegas. I have had so many clients that want to hear some of my crazy/not so crazy stories and like to share them here. Vegas can be one crazy town and is unique compared to most major cities, so a lot of people become curious about the sins of Sin City. I hope you don’t discontinue reading my blog but I will throw some personal entries here and there in the future.. I just didn’t create this blog solely for that purpose.
May 8th, 2007 at 9:45 am